Sometimes I wonder if the human condition is simply too diverse to really understand. Sure we have the models of NLP to help us through our day, that is if we know them. In my field I meet so many people I think I forget when I should or shouldn’t use NLP. It all seems a bit bewildering I’ll admit, but I never stop trying.
Anyway, on to what I really want to talk about today…….
One of the things that fascinates me about people is the way in which we filter and store information in our brains. Everyone has their own learned way of identifying what is most important to them and storing it for later recall. In the book, Figuring people out by Michael Hall & Bob Bodenhamer they talk about this very idea. How people sort, process and store information. Read the rest of this entry »
At the end of this article, you will be amazed to find out a new YOU. You may not be aware but whatever you do, is in one way or the other is connected to your past life experiences. NLP discloses a small secret to you that your positive past experience can guide you positively in your life on the contrary the negative past experience can block your path of progress. It is a proven fact. Read the rest of this entry »
Acknowledging your imperfection is a big step for a lot of people. I remember my NLP training, we did a lot of self-improvement exercises and half of the people there, including me, had a deep value of perfection. Consciously or not, and most of the time it is subconscious, we needed to be perfect and act accordingly. And obviously, as it is impossible, we had lots of emotional problems.
Most of the time, the value of perfection is subconsciously imprinted within us. Read the rest of this entry »
Mastering a skill takes time and energy. That’s why most people don’t master anything. Seriously, 80% of the population, or even more, live in a microwave mentality and want everything, money, health, happiness and peace in 2 minutes or less. Can you seriously think it’s possible?
To be really good at something, a specific skill, you need to focus and work on it for about 1 year. That seems to be the average. Some skills take more time. Some less.
The NLP four stages of competence relate to the states involved in the process of progressing from incompetence to competence. Read the rest of this entry »
