Mastering a skill takes time and energy. That’s why most people don’t master anything. Seriously, 80% of the population, or even more, live in a microwave mentality and want everything, money, health, happiness and peace in 2 minutes or less. Can you seriously think it’s possible?

To be really good at something, a specific skill, you need to focus and work on it for about 1 year. That seems to be the average. Some skills take more time. Some less.

The NLP four stages of competence relate to the states involved in the process of progressing from incompetence to competence. Read the rest of this entry »

Reframing is what NLP is all about. It is what self-improvement is all about. NLP and self-improvement are used to reach excellence in any given context: personally, within a family or in a business situation.

NLP and self-improvement teach how to direct your mind to own the best thoughts and feelings possible to achieve any goal that you desire.

Reframing is simply looking at things differently, with another perspective, from different angles. Reframing will give you more choice. The more choice you have, the freer you are, aren’t you? Read the rest of this entry »

Influencing with integrity is a quality of true leaders.

For several years now, lots of authors have talked about emotional intelligence in the family and in the business or the organization. We are now shifting towards spiritual intelligence; term popularized by Stephen Covey in his book “the 8th Habit”

I don’t think this is an improved way of thinking about leadership; this is literally a paradigm shift that people, leaders and aspiring leaders need to make in order to lead from the heart, true leadership style of the future. Read the rest of this entry »

I was working today on one of my limiting belief with NLP tools that I know are very effective to change attitudes and negative emotions in an instant.

As expected, I was a totally different person after 20 minutes of the initial exercise. My view of the world expanded and I felt more emotionally rich.

I thought that a lot of people misunderstand what it means to be rich. Is it just financially, or is it emotionally, mentally and spiritually? Read the rest of this entry »